Its Time To GROW UP *#!** *_____

Okay people fill in the blank with your own choice of words.

Males

1st
If you tell your girl bad things about one of your guys like your SH*T doesn't stink, YOU A ___ ______!

2ND
If your girl patrols your MYSPACE PAGE and monitors who she allows on your page, YOU A ______!

3rd
If your girl dictates who you can hang out with and when, YOU A __________!

4Th
If you don't go outside and kick it with one of your guys cause you are scared your girl will get mad, YOU A _________! !

5Th
If you spread lies, gossip and personal business to make another man look bad so another one of your male friends wont hang with him, YOU A _____ AND YOU ___. You undercover HOMO. Go to California and get married _____ BANDIT _______!

I'm a grown ass man, my MOMMA stop telling me what to do when I was 16. Just because you sticking and licking on that female, she controls you. YOU _____ WHIPPED _____! I ain't never been that _____.

Some of you guys think you so gangsta and hard but you are a soft _____ when it comes to a woman. The sad reality is When you Play yourself out like that, SHE DOESN'T EVEN RESPECT YOU. I'm not advocating hitting a woman or verbal abuse.,Just STOP BEING A ____.

Women

1st
Stop giving guys your phone number, leading them on, adding them to your myspace page but never answer his messages, telling them to keep calling you back and plain ole ______ cause you on games, YOU ARE A MISERABLE ____!

2ND
Quit crying cause some Confused, jail prone, want to be hard gang banger, Having Sex with you and all your friends and cousins, no real job, always drunk and smoking blunts, no out look on future, Money Over Bitches saying ____heart your feelings. Admit that you like it. Cause the nice guy that you (see number 1 above) did all that BS stuff to would have treated you better, but you thought he was lame. A LOT (Not all)OF YOU WOMEN ARE SO _____!

3rd
A lot of y'all so dumb that you let any TOM, D*CK, and HAIRY BALLS see you in your panties and privates. That should be for your man only.

4Th
Quit acting like you modeling with them STUPID ASS POSES. YOU _____look LIKE SOME DEFORMED ANIMALS TRYING TO STAND UP. It went from jail poses to, I'M TRYING TO SHAKE A TURD or CAN YOU SEE MY STINK HOLE LOOK. Its disgusting and not lady like. Step your feminine game up.

5Th
Learn how to take care of a home, which means; Cook, clean, keeping up with inventory of supplies in the house, managing bills with your man, WEARING A GIRDLE or SLIP and properly dressing. Learn how to have regular casual clothes SO IF somebody die or its a special occasion, YOU WONT HAVE ON THAT SAME SKANKY LOOKING OUT FIT that you wore 10 times in 5 DAYS.

Some of you women are TO DAMN YOUNG TO HAVE ALL THOSE ____ DENTS IN YOUR ___ and THIGHS. You can hide all of that with a girdle or a slip.

Learn how to properly wash up. ALL THAT ____ HAIR SPRAY, MIXED with BODY SPRAY, PERFUME with BLUNTS, STINK!

When you finish ____ wash your ass cause now you just added FRESH sex to all those other scents which means, YOU STINK!

Them WEED SMOKING DUDES don't know cause they high. But when you get to work or around YOUR GRANDMOTHER THEY WILL SMELL YOUR ROTTEN CLASHING ___...

6Th
Step up your HIGH HEEL WALKING GAME. Air force ones ain't gone be in style forever. LEARN HOW TO GET SOME CLASS. Watching Reality shoes is not enough. While you searching myspace for cute faces use that same energy to google how to have some class.

7Th
STOP getting advice from THAT ____ who got 3 DIFFERENT BABY DADDYS and cant stay in a stable relationship. THAT ___ WILL HAVE YOU ___ UP LIKE HER. BETTER YET GET AS far away from this _____ as you can. IF YOU KNOW SHE A ___, You should be ashamed of yourself for listening to her. YOU MUST BE A ___ AS WELL.

8Th
TAKE CARE OF YOUR_____. Try the natural way. All those chemicals and that over the counter stuff makes you stink and throws your periods off. I forgot, SOME OF YOU THE SAME DUMMIES that will get the shot, take the day after pill and get 4-5 abortions in a 2 year time period ____ YOUR BODY UP. THEN YOU WONDER WHY DUDES LIKE YOUNG GIRLS. THEM CHEMICALS MAKE YOUR ____ ALL LOSE, TO JUICY and UN naturally smelling.

9Th
TRY NOT TO ___ MORE than ONE GUY from your hood. DON'T ____ ON THE FIRST DATE. THE LONGER YOU MAKE A GUY WAIT THE MORE HE WILL RESPECT YOU. DON'T DO IT NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS.

If you _____ 5 GUYS FROM YOUR HOOD THAT HE KNOWS, AND HE LIKES YOU, HE IS EITHER A SUCKER FOR LOVE OR YOU 2 HAVE A CHANCE.....

That's all for now, * * SNITCHES * *

ITS TIME FOR Change, people!

All dressed up and no where special to go

In case you haven't noticed, there are more women than men. I see a lot of women getting all dressed up just for a party full of other women. The wild part about it is some women need to lower their expectations.

I am not advising that you go with a street bum or serious low life, but try lower those high expectations. Come down off that high horse, head out of cloud and get out of the mirror. Maybe its just me, but I would be scared of those really handsome guys women. Extremely handsome guys would scare me (if I was a woman) because the are constantly challenged by other women daily. The other flip side to it is that some pretty women are single because guys are intimidated by them. They also feel like since they are so pretty they already have a guy that is better situated than them.

The horrible side is that some pretty women do not want to go with a not so attractive man because her relatives and friends will figure she is slow or desperate.

People are going to have to look at the inside of a person and come up with a solution for preserving our moral integrity. Most of you are already sharing a man.

So what do you think I'm hinting at?

Some of us love pain

Why do I hear some women say, N's/MEN are liars and dogs?

Then I turn around and hear some men say, Women/H's/B's aint nothing (or worse).

I think its the fact that this is the only type of person that you are attracted to. Why don't you just give that nerdy guy or that nice girl a try. You ever thought that you might be a nerd or nice girl yourself trying to have a relationship with a thug or whore? If that is not the case then let me hear your angle or response to this.

Moms in your business?

If your mother is in your business then you need to get some space. Mothers try to help but some Mothers have ulterior motives. Some are lonely and want you to be alone like them.

Here are some signs to see if you Mom is in your business to ruin your relationship.

1. Always tell you to leave them and come back home.

2. Tells you negative views of that person. Is 2 face acting towards this person.

3. Doesn't like the person you are with for no reason but has no problem with that person sleeping with you.

4. They go into over drive when a child comes into the picture. (got this from Dwayne's blog)

5. Never comes over you and the other persons house but want you and the children to always come over there. If its not health or distance issues, go figure.

6. Always throwing the persons faults in their faces. You know the drama you told her about behind their back.

7. Does not talk much when that person is around.

8. Constantly reminds you of someone you were madly in love with.

9. Acts very generous when you and that person are going through rough times but when things are good they are funny acting.

10. Encourages or allows you to creep and use their house and name as a cover.

Now all of the above can be with a friend or relative also. You have to realize that this person is a hater and really does not want the best for you.